Replying to an Invitation
  18 November 2003

When you receive an invitation--whether or not it says ‘RSVP’--you should reply. If the invitation is informal, you can reply via telephone; however, it is more polite to reply to formal invitations in writing.

Here are two letters in response to the invitation on ‘Making Invitation’, featured in this column two weeks ago:

Letter 1: Accepting an Invitation

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Freeman,

We received your invitation with absolute joy. My wife and I would very much like to join you in celebrating your silver wedding anniversary. We do look forward to seeing you then.

Sincerely yours,





John and Carol Smythe


Letter 2: Declining an Invitation

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Freeman,

Thank you for inviting us to your upcoming wedding anniversary. We would like to come; unfortunately, we have made other arrangements on that day.

Apologies for not being to celebrate your anniversary with you. Best wishes and happy anniversary.

Sincerely yours,



John and Carol Smythe


Whether or not you would like to accept the invitation, you should thank your host for inviting you.

Thank you for your invitation.
Thank you for inviting us to your party.
We feel privileged to have received your invitation.

  Yes
No
We would love to come to your party. We regret that we cannot be with you on your important day.
We would be happy to join you. Unfortunately, we cannot make it to your party.
It would be a great honour to go to your party.  

Once you have accepted the invitation, you should express an enthusiasm towards the events. On the other hand, If you cannot attend the party or social engagement, you must give a reason for not being able to do so and offer an apology.

We look forward to this joyful event. I wish I could join you in celebrating your……. (wedding, birthday, etc), but unfortunately I family engagement on that day.
We would like to take this opportunity to wish you all the best for the future. I have a prior engagement.
  We will be away that weekend.